A few weeks ago a good friend texted me in the midst of a purging session. Having examined some of her relationships, she was disgusted at the lack of reciprocity demonstrated by her so-called friends. When we talked later, I presented to her what she may not have considered: Perhaps she had been dealing...
Self determination: 1. Determination of one’s own fate or course of action without compulsion; free will. 2. the act or power of making up one’s own mind about what to think or do, without outside influence or compulsion You must own your choices if you are to lead an empowered, self-directed life. That is,...
The only acceptance you need concern yourself with is self acceptance. Acceptance from anyone else is superfluous, a bonus, a pleasant surprise. And since bisexual people don’t hear it often enough, I’ll say it here, just for the record: It is perfectly natural to enjoy an emotional and sexual attraction to both women and...
Some time ago one of my favorite BBLSS members flattered me with the following question: “If you were to give a not-so-young-anymore bi sista 10 tips (or lessons learned) about living a happy, purposeful and ‘well-lived’ life, what would they be?” Thank you for the vote of confidence, my friend. First on my list...