Somebody said: “I have been trying for months to get over my ex. I have been out on dates, I have deleted pictures of us together; just about everything. But I still find myself deep in thought of the times we spent together and it hurts like hell. I know time heals all, but...
….and she really don’t want to be bothered. Ms. Clueless–Bless your heart. Ordinarily insightful, you just drop the ball from time to time. I’m gonna ask you to focus and pay attention. And because you’re decent at heart, you will. You’ll just say, “Well, shit, I’m glad somebody told me.” And you’ll shrug acquiescence...
A few weeks ago a good friend texted me in the midst of a purging session. Having examined some of her relationships, she was disgusted at the lack of reciprocity demonstrated by her so-called friends. When we talked later, I presented to her what she may not have considered: Perhaps she had been dealing...
(This is a BBLSS discussion forum post that bears repeating to a larger audience.) Pruning is necessary to promote growth. Witness the magnificent, fragrant rebound of a well-pruned rose bush. Too often we (gay people) hold onto toxic people; weeds, if you will. I’ve learned that this is primarily out of fear. Fear of...
OK, so I thoroughly enjoyed my first internet radio talk show experience! Of course, interviewers Golden Motif and his co-host Poison Ivy had a lot to do with that. They’re a great team and we enjoyed a lively discussion. The interview starts twelve minutes into the show. Listen to internet radio with Golden_Motif on...